tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1704716532906358840.post2423102447166827377..comments2023-10-28T02:48:46.913-07:00Comments on BungalowBling: Prototypes and Puppies........Shellhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00235816224639707484noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1704716532906358840.post-74590671704030412352011-08-10T14:17:28.871-07:002011-08-10T14:17:28.871-07:00It just seems your time to join the 'no choice...It just seems your time to join the 'no choice but to...' club right now deary. I've been there for several years with my stepfather and it's getting worse and worse - and I'm 3 hours away from him. No support up where he lives and I'm it. Today after a tough day at work, I called to see if the cleaning lady (a whole other very long frustrating story) had shown up this morning. Well to make a long story short, although she called him last night to tell him it would be after 3 before she could make it, today when she got there he wouldn't let her in because it was "after 3" and made another appt for next week. There goes my $80 (I'm paying because he wouldn't have it done if I left it up to him) and said cleaning lady drove over 30 minutes to get to his house - I don't blame her a bit that she will probably count that as a cleaning trip - I would too. Urghhhh! All I can tell you is tough through it - it won't last forever and really - what choice do you have?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14698801749067092572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1704716532906358840.post-7925202199337359812011-08-10T08:22:19.958-07:002011-08-10T08:22:19.958-07:00It's truly hard to set boundaries sometimes be...It's truly hard to set boundaries sometimes because the person doesn't "hear" what you are saying. I know what it's like to cringe each time the phone rings! We have a neighbor that is like this...no matter what we said, she was calling constantly. After not answering a good portion of her calls, she finally got the hint and has backed off calling. I know the situation is different though with your Mom's BF. You might gently tell her that you have missed some of her calls because you are busy and are trying to fit in all the things you need to get done. It's truly hard, isn't it?<br /><br />I hope Shadow is much better!!!<br /><br />PIECES!<br />LuLu~*xoxoLuLu Kellogghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11628316187294863988noreply@blogger.com